“I’m not sure I can handle another UTI. But in the moment, it always seems worth it.” —u/NoWear7966
“People talk about what men need to do to be good lovers. I’ve rarely heard any advice for women.” —u/Separate-Tension-353
—u/Head_Lifeguard3999 “Some days, so much is going on that getting out of my head is near impossible. I WANT the sex, but getting into it can be hard.” —u/ironically-spiders
“When they hit the bad angles too many times, and it kills the mood for both of you.” —u/throwxawayxxx1993
“It’s not even just physical energy either — it’s a whole thing. Running a 5K feels less exhausting some days.” —u/Electronic-Emu-773
“I really struggle to have sex without some kind of cover-up/top on. I get so in my head about it. I don’t like my stomach to be seen, let alone touched, and the worry about it jiggling around during makes me feel awful and unattractive. I know that’s not how he sees me, but it’s really difficult to get rid of those thoughts about myself.” —u/CurvyVioletMermaid
“Silence is downright unnerving. The only man I was with who did this was emotionally repressed and struggled to express his emotions. That’s alarm bells right there for you.” —u/Persia102 “Silence makes me feel like I can’t make the noises I want to make, and then I start over-thinking, and then it’s just a whole mess. Then the mood is gone.” —u/karamel_kupcake “Not a fan of period sex — though I wish I was, because my libido always decides that that’s a great time to make an appearance. Preparation for the mess is too much, but for me, it’s also the smell. I have a super-sensitive nose and cannot handle the smell of everything during period time.” —u/to_neverwhere
